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Monday, September 7, 2009



September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month.. I encourage you
to become informed about this deadly and silent killer..
And may it never touch your lives..
http://www.medicinenet.com/ovarian_cancer/article.htm

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

A Whole Other Language =D

NINE WORDS/PHRASES WOMEN USE

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the=2 0game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. (see #1)

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! This never ends well.

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.) Note: this expression may be followed by ‘Fine’ (see #1)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. This can vary in length from twenty four hours to several yea rs. Do not mistake silence for acceptance.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to a
dd in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').

(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying “You can go to H_ _ __ as far as I’m concerned.”

(9) Don't worr y about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

double dog Dare Ya

“Flag” Yourself as an opponent of government-run, socialistic healthcare « Our Country Deserves Bett
Source: ourcountrypac.wordpress.com
August 7, 2009 in Uncategorized | Tags: white house healthcare tea party express 912dc obama socialism flag@whitehouse.gov | by ourcountryjoe

Let's see if this will work

Crap.. forgot my slogans..

Instead of "God Bless America"
we should be singing "God Help America"

And new song (AC/DC)
"Highway to Hell-care"

I think I could use a beer to chill tonight
what do you think?

Monday, August 10, 2009

New Slogans

The will of the people is the only legitimate foundation of any government, and to protect its free expression should be our first object. —

Thomas Jefferson

Ok.. I am getting quite troubled by the turns our government and especially our President have taken. Congress tried to pass a mandated government-run healthcare system in two weeks before taking the month off for a break. They discouraged any debate or discussion concerning this monumental issue. Transformation of our healthcare system was made 20 plus years ago concerning insurance and new and supposedly better forms of mandated medical care. The birth of the HMO was to be the next great thing. The thing that would make the lives of many Americans even better. Doctors were told how much they could charge for services under the already managed Medicare and govt. sponsored health plans. Since that has occurred, insurance and the life of the physician/patient relationship was forever changed for many Americans. And not for the better. The fact that no one could get medical attention without being referred became an albotross if someone got ill. And heaven forbid if it were serious and time was of the essence. So now we can fast forward to where we are today. Doctors are fearful of not requesting many tests in order to protect themselves and their livlihoods from a very broken legal system where people want any reason to sue. So medical costs have skyrocketed to where very few can afford the care anymore.

I have to admit that I have always refused to work for a company that only offerred HMO healthcare. And I have paid out the rear end on drastically higher premiums for much less care and coverage since becoming self employed. And I won't even begin to go into all the hoops we have to hop through just to even be considered for coverage.
And heaven help you if you have a pre existing condition. So now we fast forward to today. Universal healthcare.. or now it's being called universal health insurance..cause the first term didn't sway enough citizens to go along with this very scary proposal. The term socialsim is being repeated alot these days.

NOw we have the pasage of increased stem cell research. And they are proposing even more abortions to be performed. Well that's a no brainer..they need the cells to advance the human race. It's not a huge jump to consider cloning. The only difference between now and the great Aryan race is technical advances. We are now more intelligent in how we judge and determine who gets what and who is worthy to live. Everyone outside of the US with the means to afford our medical care is already lining up for help. Now let's assume the this crap passes. And you get let's say cancer. Let's say you are middle class. NO better yet.. poor. You have the golden ticket, but now you can't get into the Dr's for help cause the Dr's left the profession,. or very few are gonna go into medicine. Now we all know that the world's richest (not countries) are going to get the services first. And let's say that maybe just maybe this person really is in a chance where maybe the treatment might not help them or cure them? Or you have a tiny baby born prematurly who will probably rack up a million plus in medical bills thryong to save this child's life..but then again..maybe not.. We have now entered the casino folks. It's a crap shoot. And the govt. now has the power to determine if you get treatment and if you live. Pretty scary in my book.. George Orwell was on the target, but even he landed on the outskirts of the target section..the very border far away from the bullseye.. Ok.. Now I have totally depressed myself..

The very fact that our government has already placed a crippling financial bill to my grandchildren is upsetting enough. They (Congress) spent billions to the banking and automotive industries and now are co owners is troubling enough. They spent OUR money when we never even had the opportunity to vote on the issue. It was passed so suddenly and severely and practically guaranteed that it would save our economy from complete devastation. Fast forward almost a year later and still more people are losing their jobs by the thousands. The govt. reports a decline in job losses and the beginning of the turn around... While state and municipal goverments are citing just the opposite.

And now the most troubling information to come about in the past two weeks is that the President has issued a warning or scare tactic to try and prevent people from actually partaking in their absolute rights to petition and form tea parties to declare their feelings on the way our government is running things. He has asked his supporters to turn in names by email and other ways of people who do just that.. exercise their rights of protest and petition. It has even been stated that these Americans were Nazi's and other degrading names. Pelosi even when so far as to say that some of these protestors were dispalying Nazi symbols. First off, wait a minute.. wouldn't the major news cameras have a HUGE story for ratings with that one? That's un American.. so why not show some footage? They are already rolling the cameras to try and sway the public to see things their way? To be against their policies is to be Un American.. and worse.. And the footage I have seen of these protests show citizens wearing and dispalying their American flags and singing patriotic songs. Where were the angry and horrific name calling when Hollyweird and the media were slamming our freedoms and President all over the world during the former administration? They received applause and laughter..for thier actions. And the fact that Sean Penn had the self appointed duty to hold court w/a tyrant in Venezuela and mock our govt?

I do not agree nor do I condone the actions of the President and his cronies. They are destroying our already weakened country with their edicts and mandates. However, I will not ever go elsewhere and defame our country for which he represents. My love of this country and all we stand and are blessed with are too important to me. However, he and his goons are failing to listen and even begin to represent the citizens of this country. By the statement of calling his citizens Nazi's is extremely troubling. He works for all Americans. That is his job. To dismiss a sector of the population is appalling. However, when the topic of racial profiling or religious intolerance is mentioned.. a side is taken on his part. Just who is he representing?

He and so many other govt. officials are so out of touch with us the people. We are speaking.. and now we are beginning to speak even louder. We learned the hard way about not taking something for face value the hard way. We are still trying to resolve the issue of a quick trigger war. The fact that healthcare represents 17% of the fiscal pie should not be debated or discussed and flatly passed no questions asked is out of the questions for most Americans. A president who tries to dissuade discussion by threats is what? Another form of Socialism!! First the threats..then the passing of govt. mandated and run forms of our freedoms is just that. What next? Tyranny? It's slowly going that way if we don't wake up.. The coffee is brewing.. By the way.. Face book has a page where you can go and turn yourself in if you want to oppose the healthcare issue.. I redily and happily told them what I thought..I don't want or need someone turning me in.. I refuse to stay hidden iont he shadows..cuase if I do.. then my children will pay a price I will put my life on the line to prevent.. Just as my grandfather did so many years ago.. and his ancestors before him.. I double dog dare you to email the President and tell him loud and clear how you feel. The last count I saw.. we still had our freedom of speech..until of course they take that away. Now I'm off to pray that when I sent that little message in my sleep deprived anger I won't be getting any MIB visits.

since school is about to start and a reminder for me at home

The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior
teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.

-- William Arthur Ward

Thursday, July 23, 2009

What we remember

It's been quite awhile since my last posting. And a very terminal and deathly dangerous virus caught ahold of our computer and sent it almost to its death. And I lasted officially one whole day without my addictive tool of my trade. Feelings of despair, anxiety and total depression set in and sent me reeling. How had I become so connected and attached to my outward devise that links me to all my friends and foreign lands? The new computer seems so unfamiliar but with rededicated vigor I'm certain this new one and I will make peace and become one. One huge time sucking bond that sends my life into wteckage with the sheer magnitude of time lost and relationships stressed.


So this gut wrenching slow drawn out stretch of time left my mind to wonder about many things. And one of them is the time this obseession that is spent. At the time it seems so vitally important. But once the moment has passed, was the tradeoff
worth it? In some cases the answer would have of be "of course". My favorite cousin and one of my dearest friends and I have reconnected after many many years. My phone bill would be astronomical while in college. We could easily talked for hours. So today we have been blessed with instant messaging. What a godsend that little tidbit of modern technology provides. These days, after I log into my facebook account, I chedck to see if she's on yet. The two hour time difference is well worth the wait and price for staying up way way too late so we can catch up.

I have been so blessed with my friends. We share the type of friendship in which very long periods of time have passed without having conversed. However, we are always able to pick up as if we just spoke the day before. And with such ease. Time has taught me that these friendships are the ones that will sustain me through anything that life throws my way.

Getting back on subject now: All this time got me to thinking about family and Friendships. The ones that keep me going and on path. On the right road you might say. I got to thinking about what is the most important thing in life and what we remember about people. Is it what they said or what they did? Or maybe a combination of things? And do we even remember the most important things that need not to be forgotten? This time of year always reminds me of my maternal grandfather, my Big Daddy. Both of my parents were educators so our summertime was very important. It provided some of the only time we got to spend with my dad since he worked his butt off coaching. The hours are horrific for coaches and I admire him immensely for all of the sacrifices he made for me and our family. And my mom as well, for she was the glue that held all of us together and functioning successfully.

Anyway, summers would be spent with my MawMaw and Bog Daddy. It was the one time of the yeart in which we would not be rushing around with hectic schedules. Still to this day, the mention or even thought of my Big Daddy can send my into tears for my love and missing him are so great. He has been gone for almost 49 years, but it still feels like yesterday wen cancer took him away from us. I used to love to go to his home and wait for him to come home for lunch. We had a ritual of me hiding in the exact same spot everyday and he would pretend to be scared when I jumped out. He loved to laugh and hang out with me. he gave me muy first sip of coffee when I was four. And I still to this day drink it cause it comforts me immensely.


But what I remember most about him was his scent, the cologne he wore and some of the sounds associated with his daily routine.. to be continued.. i'm about to fall asleep...